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# Speaking Up
by [Dee (Deanna) Rolffs (they/them)](https://l3catalystgroup.com/blog/author/dee-rolffs)
February 22, 2023
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Speaking Up
Recently, we were enjoying Sunday brunch with friends, and the conversation developed into storytelling about recent events in which a family member said something transphobic, a neighbor said something sexist, or a grandparent said something racist in front of the grandkids.
Our friends were kicking themselves, wishing they’d said something. We
- Wondered what could have been said.
- Shared good reasons for speaking up, including the fact some of their kids gave them crap for not speaking out against grandpa’s racism.
- Encouraged each other to ask a simple question like “Wait, did I hear you say\_\_\_? What did you mean by that?”
- Named that some people’s biggest fear was making other people uncomfortable.
Injustice thrives in silence.
Speaking out against injustice is nothing
compared to living it.
But it doesn’t have to be this way. While speaking up isn’t the only way to fight injustice, your voice does matter.
Speaking up is hard.
This Harvard Business Review article [How to Speak Up When it Matters](https://hbr.org/2019/03/how-to-speak-up-when-it-matters) provides steps to model the way. (Smith, Grant & Rock, 2019)
Quick preview: they recommend that we make a plan to say something next time.
How have you spoken up when it was uncomfortable? When did you kick yourself for not speaking up? How can you find your voice to speak up against cruelty, exclusion, or injustice?
Friends, I wish you courage for journey.
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February 22, 2023
Dee (Deanna) Rolffs (they/them), Owner & Principal Consultant at L3 Catalyst Group, is a coach, strategist, facilitator, and change agent applying the Process Consulting approach with anti-oppression and liberatory frameworks. Specializing in crisis and change leadership, they support brave and badass leaders and teams illuminate underlying issues, infuse learning, envision a just future, and walk a transformational path forward. Dee is committed to equitable systemic outcomes, healthy humans, and thriving teams. Dee serves on the board of their local Pride Center, is messily learning to practice meditation, and is always up for truth telling about oppression and living life in liberatory joy.
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