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Today I'm reflecting on being sick in a world that keeps moving and demanding. I’m in week four of a bad cold and am just starting to feel human again.

How do you care for your mind when your body is sick?

I've learned the hard way this time. Too often, I was saying things like this to myself:

“I NEED to…"
"I HAVE to…"
"I SHOULD…"

All while needing to just lie on the couch in the sun and heal.

I'm seeing with new eyes the ways we have internalized toxic, always-working culture that is so demanding, as evidenced when we are ill. Why is it so hard to rest? 

I'm practicing...

Gratitude for people in my life who are patient with me when I make mistakes and cancel or reschedule meetings. 

Precious daily meditation; it was too easy to skip that while sick…ironically.

Resting for a bit, just for the sake of rest, not to rest and get up and work myself into the ground.

Reading for joy and enjoyment. 

Community experienced in-real-life, virtually, and even via social media. These Instagram posts encourage me. I hope they encourage you as well, even if you aren’t sick. 

Body Love:

via @healthyphit

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Rest is Resistance: 

via @thenapministry

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Truthtelling:

via @carolinejsumlin

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Dee (Deanna) Rolffs (they/them)
Post by Dee (Deanna) Rolffs (they/them)
March 13, 2024
Dee (Deanna) Rolffs (they/them), Owner & Principal Consultant at L3 Catalyst Group, is a coach, strategist, facilitator, and change agent applying the Process Consulting approach with anti-oppression and liberatory frameworks. Specializing in crisis and change leadership, they support brave and badass leaders and teams illuminate underlying issues, infuse learning, envision a just future, and walk a transformational path forward. Dee is committed to equitable systemic outcomes, healthy humans, and thriving teams. Dee serves on the board of the Grand Rapids Pride Center, is messily learning to practice medition, and is always up for truth telling about oppression and living life in liberatory joy.

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